It is likely that there is little you can do

Often, a child bring to a second marriage is not taken into consideration as regards your expenses, such as child support, etc. for the first child. In Nebraska, there has even been an attempt to pass laws to make it illegal for a man to have anymore children until their financial obligations are finished to the first.

This is something you are going to have to talk to your attorney about. You might also go to the library and research your states laws on child support, and this is a child support issue, as it is related to children born to other women.

Now that said, let’s discuss your long distance visitation. Are to seeing the child on alternate weekends, or do to have a long distance visitation schedule, such as only holidays and summers?